I’m asked periodically, what’s the fastest way to radically upgrade one’s psychic life? And I’m pretty sure I’ve found a half-way decent answer to the inquiry: Stop taking it personally. That’s right–stop …
It’s just awfully lonely being a human being. It’s just awfully hard being a human being. For so many reasons. We are really, in a sense, totally alone within ourselves. We can’t …
Many myths surround the term “confidence.” Everyone wants to feel what we call confident. Everyone sees others as more confident than themselves. Most of us associate confidence with feeling secure, self-assured, unafraid …
About twenty-five years ago, I said something like this to a psychologist friend of mine at lunch: “You know, we’re psychotherapists, but I’m telling you…what everyone really needs…what everyone secretly wants…is a …